- Prioritize your goals with the right jeweler. Look for a consultant, not a salesperson - someone who will spend time helping you select what's right for you and your budget.
- Look at smaller stones. An exceptional smaller stone can dazzle more than a larger one if it offers the best of the 4Cs. Ask about that as you look at diamond cuts.
- Go for color. If your fiancèe-to-be loves following (or setting) trends, you might do well with a diamond in black, brown, blue, green or yellow. Consider a gemstone that could be less expensive than a diamond such as a ruby, emerald, sapphire or tanzanite.
- Multiply your options. Whatever main diamond you choose, you can surround it with other stones. Another option is a halo ring or narrow band set with pavé diamonds. These can be very sparkly, glamorous and less expensive.
- Think about a promise ring. Sometimes, shopping for a promise ring will lead you to a simple diamond ring that will fit your purpose. A promise ring can be a simple diamond solitaire or several diamonds together on a small band. Promise rings come in all shapes and sizes.